Early this morning, I had a phone call interview from a Lady friend called Sissel Brenna, who live and work in Sweden and also run her personal business online (you can visit her blog website at From Aid to Maturity). During the interview, she asked me series of questions; like what drive me to start up my personal development website, how long I’ve been blogging about personal development, the challenges I’ve been facing as a blogger and how I intend to let the world know about what I’m doing? It was an eyes opening interview for me, because she said my work has been a great motivation to her and she is looking up to share her own experiences as a blogger and also learn more about African way of life. I told her how my life was changed after a reading a book written by Jim Rohn titled 7 Strategies for Wealth and Happiness at the age of 19, when I was a fresher at the university. And since then, I’ve channeled my life on the discovering and researching about the secret behind those who consciously build their life from nothing and touch lives around the world.
And from my personal research, I’ve learned that human beings are born free and equal in dignity and right. Everyone is entitled to all the rights and freedoms set forth in the universal Declaration of Human Rights, without distinction of any kind, such as race, colour, sex, language, religion, political or other opinion, national or social origin, property, birth or social status. Everyone has the right to life, liberty and security of person.
But, why most people reign in life, become a public figure and achieve some personal greatness can be traced back to personal drive as a conscious human being and one discovering and finding his or her purpose of existence, and go for it. And those who go extra mile in life to discover their purpose, passions, talents, gifts etc. reign in life more than those who only live each day of their by default. To reign in life as a conscious being, you must discover life purpose and learn how to use it to serve the highest good of all, because service to many always lead to greatness.
To reign in life as a conscious being, you must discover your life calling, purpose and develop a habit of immediate taking action on any advice or good idea that you received or learned during your own personal development. You are where you are today because of yourself. The day you discovered yourself and start living to your core values and principles, your life will be transformed into a new life. And from there, you will start reigning.
Note, everything you are today, or even will be in the future, is just up to you. Not the government or your parents will save you. Your life today is the sum total result of your past and present choices, decisions and actions. You can create or design a life where you can reign as a conscious being by changing your behaviors starting from today. You can make new choices and decisions that are more consistent with the person you want to become or things you wished to achieve in your life may be five to ten years from today. Success is the ability to live your life the way you want to live it, doing what you most enjoy, surrounded by the people who you admire and respect, that’s what it means to reign in life as a conscious being.
One of the most important goals you must achieve to be successful and reign in life is the development of your own character through self discovery. And doing so, your health, happiness and true prosperity would be taken care of. Your aim in reigning in life should be to develop the habits of character that enable you be the best person that can imagine yourself becoming and also be a channel through which positive things can come to others unconditionally.
Whatever you must have achieved or accomplished in life to this date is only a small fraction of what you are truly capable of achieving. The people who reigned in any path they have chosen for themselves believe that everything in life happens for a reason. Nothing happens by accident. If you do what other successful people do, you will eventually get the same results that they do get. And if you don’t, you won’t.
If you want to reign in life, be happy, prosperous, become popular, become positive and confident about yourself, just find out how other people who are enjoying these qualities of benefits got that way and do the same things that they do. In whatever path you’ve chosen for yourself, thrive to think same thoughts. Feel the same feelings. Take same actions. If you confidently expect something to happen, this expectation has a powerful effect on your attitude and your personality. The more confident your expectations, the more likely it’s that you will do help you reign in life as a conscious being.
Successful people expect and believe to be successful, in advance. In building your wisdom to reign in life as a conscious being, you must develop the habit of keeping your mind full of exciting, positive, emotionalized pictures and images of the exact things you want see materialize in your life, in the world around you. Because the way you think about success and prosperity will be reflect in the results that you enjoy in your career, business, and material life.
Everything in your outer world is the controlled and been determined by what you’re thinking in your inner world. The whole secret to reign in life as a conscious being lies on you to find out what is your calling or life purpose and give it all your to enable you get to your destination. What are your dreams? What are you passionate about? What are your talents? What are your gifts? What are you capable of? Can you write? Then write! Can you sing? Then sing! Can you teach? Then teach! Can you cook? Then cook! Can you play any sports? Then play!
The wisdom to reign in life as a conscious begins when you start looking inwardly rather looking outwardly to figure out what you truly want to do with your life. Your Life shouldn’t be programmed based on someone’s dreams and plans. You must learn to live to your values and by consciously doing so and accepting the true nature about reality about life, your life will begin to unfold gradually. Never be afraid of failures because experience is what you get whenever you don’t truly get what you wanted from life. But you have got to get the fundamental down because otherwise the fancy stuff isn’t going to work out fine for you.
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You’re able to say to yourself, I have lived through this horror for a long time and take a bold step forward to go for it. You say to yourself you can take the next thing that comes along no matter what happened. You must learn to do the things you know that would help get to your destination and also face your life courageously.
Also, to reign in life as a conscious being, you must learn the principles of association to avoid wasting time with the wrong crowd. You need to ask yourself the following questions to determine the effects of those you associate with. With whom do you spend your time with? What are they doing to you? Are these types of associations okay with you? From there, you can move on to ask yourself; what have they got you doing? What have they got you listening to? What have they got you reading? Where have they got you going in life? What have they got you thinking? How have they got you talking? How have they got you feeling? What have they got you saying about life?
After going through the questions on your associations with others, ask yourself again this final questions; Are your present associations helping you grow in the direction of what you’ve chosen for yourself right now? And if you’re fortunate enough to answer yes t0 this question, I’m very much happy for you. But if you are not sure, then it’s time to evaluate your relationships with some of the key players in your life. You must know that everything matters in life. Check if there is someone who is pecking away at your visions. Is there anyone who tries to blind you from seeing your dreams? Hey, it’s easy to let the influence of others shape our lives, especially negative influence. It’s easy to let associations determine our direction, to let persuasion overwhelm us, and to let pressures mold us becoming what we don’t wish and want to become in life.
In whatever path you’ve chosen for yourself, ask yourself right now; are you reigning in this path you’ve chosen for yourself? Are you becoming, achieving, acquiring what you want, or you’re letting others steal your dreams? Remember, it could be the choice that saves the quality of your life. Well, it’s your life. You can spend your time with whomever you want and however you want. But to reign in life as a conscious being, you must learn to take a look at your priorities and values and evaluate them. Your time on this planet is too short to spend it less than wisely to Reign as a conscious being!
Until Next Time, Live Exceptionally!!!